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THE DON’TS OF A FIRST DATE

There are some things guys should never do when taking a girl out on a first date. A study shows that if you tend to show or do more than one of these facts, you will either never get a second date or get a relationship that will never stand the test of time.

This facts although varies in various cases. As we know the way people react to various factors differs. So also is the case with these facts, although it proves to be right to a large extent.

You should never let her know how much you earn. Most ladies like to know how much a guy earns and how much he is worth. In as much as you know that they want to know, a guy just needs to show how much he is worth in is dressing, his swagger, and the type of wheels he drives. Leave digits out of all discussions.

A girl never wants to know the number of girls you have conquered. This tells a lot about who the guy is when it comes to dating. Obviously the higher the number of conquers insinuates that the lady too will soon become one of many conquers. So if you are guy who talks too much, maybe you should slow it down a little, because you might just be the obstacle to how successful the relationship goes.

You should never forget to go along with a gift. It could be a moderately expensive gift. Ladies generally love receiving gifts, and the fact that you brought one along puts you in a good position.

Going on a first date with a lady does not necessarily mean you guys have started dating. One date might be all you would ever get. Ladies now see dates as an opportunity to just have some fun, without any intentions of truly dating the guy. So guys should try not to go over the top in making a first date very special. Very special spells expensive, when you spend so much and get nothing in return, that turns to bad debts. In as much as you would like to make it special, do not inconvenient yourself in doing this, always plan within your budget.

This fact is one that a guy should never forget to do when on a first date. Imagine spending a lovely time with your date at various exquisite places, and it is time to say goodbyes. What a girl hates the most is not getting the first date kissing and hugging. If you fail to do this, then you have flopped the whole date. Make sure you have yourself prepared for this moment; it is that moment that can turn magical.

Now that you know these few facts, the next time you go on a date, make sure you put this into action, then you would see how lucky you would get.

By: Leke Adebiyi
23/03/2011

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